The reason why people judge each other.
Heya shining stars!
This Bohemian soul sometimes strikes me right into my head and I get this darkish kind of phase that I call as A Dark Streak! Being different is cool, but sadly most of us confuse being different with being extra. Whenever this Dark Streak hits me, people can easily prey upon me with their judgemental hunger. I believe that our judgments and harsh comments dim the spark of uniqueness in someone’s heart every day, a spark which took too long to develop. A spark which took too long, faced too much, and worked so hard to get mature. Whilst we need no more than a split second to shatter that charm permanently. Humiliation is a sin and should be treated as pitiful as possible. It is quite funny that fat is judging fat for being fat, skinny is mocking another skinny for the same reason. I believe that humiliation and judgment are most common in those people who are insecure about themselves. Thus, they try to make others feel insecure too. They think that if we are unhappy if we don’t have a certain perfection, why let others live confidently with that? Let’s mock them and make them feel equally bad as we do. Guys this is wrong and thus needs to be stopped. Only you and I can make a difference. Let’s learn to love ourselves first, embrace our body, our face, and our complexions just like we cherish each and every color of the rainbow. We might like pink more but we never say that yellow is ugly. Every color has its own charm, similarly we all humans have our own auras, our unique beauty and beautiful hearts beating the same rhythm every day.
Those who truly love themselves, and are confident about themselves are the real champions. They are the ones who truly celebrate humanity! Instead of being dependant on others approval, start acknowledging yourself, all by yourself. Only then you can love others truly, cherish their conventional flaws as differences, and embrace the diversity with a broad mind. Don’t be a happiness killer, rather be the one who quenches the thirst of the dying hearts. BE THAT HEART OF GOLD.
When I was a kid, my mum used to tell me that successful people are not the ones who take all the credit themselves, yet they stand behind the queue, giving credit to the others.
Be the hero of your own story! I love you all.
